For the past year, a 30‑year‑old man has been inviting strangers to sit with him in pubs across the country, an initiative he calls the Empty Chairs campaign.
The idea emerged after his best friend died by suicide at age 29, prompting him to create a space where no one feels alone.
He wears a bright orange hoodie to stand out and encourages conversation in restaurants and pubs, making himself approachable to anyone who stops by.
The campaign celebrated its 1,000th meetup in Leigh‑on‑Sea, Essex, where about twelve people gathered, marking a significant milestone in its growth.
The organizer expressed pride in the program’s expansion and the positive impact it has had on participants, describing it as an incredible experience.
He works for a team‑building game company and leveraged social media to generate interest in the Empty Chairs gatherings.
What began in London and Essex has spread to cities across the UK and internationally, with events planned in places such as Manchester, Cambridge, Skegness, and overseas in Colombia, Spain, the United Arab Emirates, and Australia.
Participants often return, especially in rural towns, where the gatherings foster lasting friendships and a sense of community.
The organizer notes that men frequently find the space to open up about their struggles, and the groups discuss a wide range of topics, from urban isolation to everyday concerns.
With about 200 more events scheduled, he has no plans to pause the program and intends to keep expanding it.
He emphasizes that attendees come from diverse walks of life, and the gatherings are inclusive, welcoming anyone who needs a listening ear.
He hopes the Empty Chairs campaign will serve as a lasting legacy for his friend, honoring his kindness and the joy he brought to others.
